I found a box of books in our shed a few months ago. Not sure where they came from, but we kept a few. One of them was about using your children's personalities to relate to them and help them feel secure and fulfilled. I think it's interesting, but it obviously has its limitations and should be used with a grain of salt.
Anyway, after reading that book, I decided that Ethan seems to lean toward the melancholy side. He is a pretty tender-hearted little guy, more thoughtful and serious than other kids his age that I've been able to observe. I don't know how his little personality with develop as he grows up, but that is where I'd put him now.
Ironically, Ethan's favorite little stuffed animal right now is Eeyore.
Does it ever seem like the more adults you have in the house, the less-supervised the kids are? Everyone thinks someone else is keeping an eye on them. That is how when Levi and Joel were home for lunch today, Ethan managed to swipe my scissors and carry them off to his room for sneaky experimenting. I came to find him, and he came out his door, guiltily offering up the scissors.
"Did you cut something?"
"Wes (yes)"
"What did you cut?"
"Eyoh's eoh (Eeyore's ear)"
We are still working on r's and y's. Anyway, I made a big deal about not playing with Mommy's scissors, and how we don't cut our toys.
"Eeyore is so sad that you cut him! We need to be gentle and kind to our toys."
It took the scissors back to their drawer, and I could hear Ethan down the hall saying, "Sorry, Eeyore, sorry Eeyore." My little speech seemed to have sunk in.
Then my little guy's tender heart came out. I got a little teary. He came in to where Levi and I were sitting, eating lunch. He was carrying Eeyore and looking pretty miserable.
"Daddy, Eeyore's crying."
Could I ask for a sweeter kid?